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Feminists Don't Wear Pink and Other Lies by Scarlett Curtis


Feminists Don’t Wear Pink and Other Lies – Scarlett Curtis


Scarlett Curtis has curated the voices of many different women, all of whom are feminists into one thought provoking book in the Instagram magnet shade of Baker Miller Pink. The voices featured are varied in background and age and profession, and this will contribute to its success. The medium of the book is further varied – ranging from short poetry, a letter on how to raise boys as feminists, mission statements and simple to do lists. We hear from accomplished actresses alongside women’s rights activists and schoolgirls, but what they all have in common is their unashamed, unabashed feminism.

Predictably, I did not enjoy every section of this book – at times I found the point of view put across a little simplistic, or lazy, or written in a way as to avoid the real subject. However to contrast that, there were writers contained that I did not expect to enjoy, who put a message across in a way I had not considered before, and who taught me something about feminism when in truth, I was going to skip past their piece. Evanna Lynch for example, whilst I am sure she is a wonderful person, I was surprised to see her included, yet her writing on whether femininity impedes feminism was something I needed to read that I never realised. Jameela Jamil discussing how closely interlinked toxic masculinity and sexism are lent me a perspective I had never before considered.

Curtis’ curation dredged up sentiments in myself that I have felt but not articulated. One particularly pertinent thought for me, is that when we see people like Lena Dunham or Margaret Atwood being attacked for being “bad feminists” every headline that promotes this idea demotes the idea inside myself that I myself am a feminist. It does make you think – am I good enough, clever enough, passionate enough for this exclusive club? When in reality, these women are strident feminists, passionate about the cause, yet they are merely human and making inevitable mistakes. I had always known that I believed in equal rights for women, and this book reminded me why, and strengthened my perspective. However, this being said, whilst the book has interesting perspectives to lend and you may learn something new about feminism, it is not presented as factual or necessarily educational. It is light hearted and accessible in approach. There is no preachiness or holier than thou attitude to be found here – the book truly embodies the championing of women.

Learning to have sex from porn is like learning how to drive from The Fast and the Furious. A bloody horrendous idea. - Jameela Jamil

When I bought this book, I was at first a little hesitant to bring it into the office to read on my lunch break – I don’t know if this is because it is pink and girlish in appearance, or because it would instantaneously label me as a feminist in my male dominated environment. However – this is exactly why I needed this book. Why should I be ashamed to label myself as such? And more importantly – why should I be ashamed of bringing in a pink book when I am the only person in my office who reads!


I will always be the little girl who grew up believing she could make it to the moon, in a world that still debates whether girls should have an education and whether women should have reproductive rights. - Alaa Murabit

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